Sexist!@#$

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Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of pageLink to this message   By Amy (Blueangel) on Tuesday, July 30, 2002 - 12:54 pm: Edit

Hey some of us are FEMALE out here... so I can't vote on the poll cause I'm not a waiter... I'm a waitress.

Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of pageLink to this message   By CatThyme (Valorie) on Tuesday, July 30, 2002 - 02:32 pm: Edit

Ugh. If you have to be called "waitress" for someone to know you're female... ;)

If you look at the catagory, Ron obviously meant for it to be inclusive.

Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of pageLink to this message   By Shaolin Monkey (Yedancer) on Tuesday, July 30, 2002 - 03:55 pm: Edit

Would the correct term have been "wait-person?"

Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of pageLink to this message   By Melissa Varriano (Mel) on Tuesday, July 30, 2002 - 04:00 pm: Edit

i think the politically correct term is "server".

Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of pageLink to this message   By CatThyme (Valorie) on Tuesday, July 30, 2002 - 05:12 pm: Edit

The existence of the term "waitress" itself is sexist, as it separates the female waitstaff out from the male waitstaff.

Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of pageLink to this message   By Naked and reeking with panda love (Dennis) on Tuesday, July 30, 2002 - 06:10 pm: Edit

Hmmm, well... why would one refer to a female server as "waitress" when "hey, bitch!" works perfectly fine?

Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of pageLink to this message   By Amy (Blueangel) on Tuesday, July 30, 2002 - 10:46 pm: Edit

I do respond to "hey new girl"... but only to the regulars - another fav of everyone is "that young looking girl with the braids... can I pull on them"

Dennis, you should make it to Dini's sometime when I'm in the bar - just make sure you wear flippers and bring a tricylce.

Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of pageLink to this message   By Amy (Blueangel) on Tuesday, July 30, 2002 - 10:47 pm: Edit

oh and behind one of the guys' backs we call him "twinkle toes" not "waiter"

Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of pageLink to this message   By Ron (Ron) on Wednesday, July 31, 2002 - 10:56 am: Edit

Hmmm, a lot of actresses call themselves actors nowadays, why not waitresses being waiter? Oh well...

But I clearly didn't put the right categories for this poll because 10% are voting for "other". No surprise 35% of us are engineering/technical! Buncha geeks. Is it because the same part of the brain likes music, or because we like the patterns involved swing dancing, or just that engineers can afford the $$ for years of lessons it takes to become good...

Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of pageLink to this message   By Ron (Ron) on Wednesday, July 31, 2002 - 10:58 am: Edit

And with the vet category being 0%, clearly Laurel and Shauna haven't voted yet...

Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of pageLink to this message   By Naked and reeking with panda love (Dennis) on Wednesday, July 31, 2002 - 12:11 pm: Edit

Maybe I can add a mask and snorkel to the outfit, then you can just pour the beer down the snorkel, and I can use it as a beer bong....

So where is Dini's again?

Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of pageLink to this message   By Laurel (Laurel) on Wednesday, July 31, 2002 - 01:51 pm: Edit

There's another vet in our scene too and I already forgot her name. Susan Bondi and Bill would know. I guess she doesn't come out very often.

Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of pageLink to this message   By Lorien (Forest) on Wednesday, July 31, 2002 - 11:13 pm: Edit

Okay, I am trying to work but I'm crazy bored so I am going to go off on a barely related tangent here...

My first year of grad school, I was the only female in my class of budding economists.

During the first week of classes, professor Y lets us out for a break and says, "I want you guys back here in 10 minutes". Then he says, "Uh, I mean, the guys and the, uh... uh... the, uh... the non-guy." Then he tries to divert attention away from his latest statement by questioning the admission policies which resulted in the gender imbalance in the classroom. But as he muses aloud on this theme he notes that every few years there are actually classes with quite a few women in them. "Women are like locusts," he concludes. At this point I rather involuntarily voice some displeasure at being compared to an insect, whereupon he states that he feels that locusts are really quite smart creatures, evading predators by disappearing for years at a time.

I guess I'm just a dumb locust who showed up in the wrong year.

Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of pageLink to this message   By Rebecca Lofft (Verbivore) on Friday, August 02, 2002 - 02:18 pm: Edit

I love my locust sister. :)

Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of pageLink to this message   By Jeff (Jeff) on Friday, August 02, 2002 - 06:03 pm: Edit

Luckily, for us, she doesn't go away for years at a time!

Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of pageLink to this message   By Amy (Blueangel) on Saturday, August 03, 2002 - 02:39 pm: Edit

Dini's is west of I-5 in Carlsbad... take Tamarack exit and go towards the beach till Carlsbad Blvd - then go north and you'll see it on your right hand side before the stoplight. OR go to Neiman's, turn left on Carlsbad Blvd, pass the stoplight and take the next left street. Dini's by the Sea has on draft Budweiser, Miller Lite, Samuel Adams, Newcastle Brown Ale, Black & Tan, Sierra Nevada Pale Ale, Guinness, Gordon Biersch, Karl Strauss, Pyramid Hefeweizen, Kemper Root Beer... any other questions?

[oh and our special drinks are Iguana's, Green Lizards, and Sex on the Beach shots]

Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of pageLink to this message   By Lorien (Forest) on Sunday, August 04, 2002 - 01:46 am: Edit

Aw, thanks Jeff--that was nice of you to say. Actually, I am moving away to San Francisco in late September/early October, but I am hoping to come down to SD every two months or so, to see my family, and, of course, to make my rounds at the fabulous SD lindy venues.

I haven't danced with you in ages, Jeff. :( You'll be around this coming week, I hope?

I love you too, sister!

I like Newcastle Brown Ale. I bought some for my dad last time he came to town, in a futile attempt to keep him from drinking my roommate's beer. I haven't had it from the tap since I was actually in Newcastle. That was when I was 7. Guinness and Sam Adams are good too. It's late and I'm rambling again.

Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of pageLink to this message   By halospotts (Carismiles) on Sunday, August 04, 2002 - 02:38 pm: Edit

AWW, I miss the conversating with my beloved sister on the forum. Hopefully she reads this... Love you sister. Muah! Hope to see you again soon.

Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of pageLink to this message   By Jeff (Jeff) on Sunday, August 04, 2002 - 11:19 pm: Edit

You have a sister?

Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of pageLink to this message   By Ron (Ron) on Monday, August 05, 2002 - 10:53 am: Edit

Does she dance?

Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of pageLink to this message   By halospotts (Carismiles) on Monday, August 05, 2002 - 01:59 pm: Edit

Ha! Of course I do. She likes to think she does.


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